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Ogonkova Ann
Love is the Ideal Soil for the Human Seed to Grow.
It is true that love plays an important role in upbringing. Family is our parents, the first friends in our life. When children have problems, the parents support and help them and when their children achieve success, they are happy for them. But one cannot deny that the relationship between parents and children is not always good and that parents can make some mistakes, which damage the child’s personality.
To begin with, parents often cannot make a comfortable atmosphere in the family. Generally, it is when parents are too exacting and too authoritative, which scares the child. One must admit that in this family the child feels stressed because parents aren’t his friends. Sometimes parents believe that if they are strict then their child will be more obedient. The other side of the coin is, however, that when the child grows up he won’t be able to be a leader, because in childhood his parents didn’t give him an opportunity to be an important person in the family.
Another parent’s mistake is ignoring children’s needs. Usually, they give more time to work or material problems, not noticing the children’s soul traumas. In this case, the child is left alone with his problems. The worst part is that he can borrow this child’s pattern of behavior and apply it in his adult’s life. He can become reserved and buttoned-up, he can have trouble asking people for help, because he can be afraid to be turned down, as he was in childhood.
On the other hand, supercare and superlove can be another serious mistake that parents make. They make their child the center of their lives, which has a bad influence both on them and on the child. In the future, parents can demand the same love and attention that they gave to the child when he was little. On the other hand, supercare is bad for the child because the parents deprive him of privacy. Acting this way, parents don’t give the child an opportunity to think for himself, make independent decisions and become his own person.
In conclusion, I would like to say that the parents’ job is not easy and these are not the only mistakes that they can make. I believe that the parents should find the middle ground. On the one hand, the parents shouldn’t ignore their child’s needs and the child should feel that he is loved and important, but at the same time he should get his privacy, make his own choices and learn what’s right and wrong himself.
Following these tips, parents have a chance to raise a happy person, who can be responsible for his actions and himself.



Ogonkova Ann
Unkindness destroys love.
It is true that love plays an important role in our life. Every day millions of people want to make a family. They fall in love, get married and devote their life to each other. They believe that it is forever. But one cannot deny that the relationship between husband and wife is not always good and that they can make some mistakes which damage their love.
To begin with, husband and wife often cannot make a comfortable atmosphere in the family. Sometimes they do not think about spiritual affinity. Husband thinks about financial foundation in the family and wife thinks what to cook for dinner or when her handsome man will come back home. One must admit that this relationship is not a bed of roses. This relationship is based on convenience. It is not bad, but it is not enough for a solid marriage.
Another spouse’s mistake is ignoring each other’s needs. Generally, it is when one of the spouses comes back after work, exhausted. Sometimes he or she does not give their attention to the other spouse. They are expecting moral support, and love. Loneliness is a terrible thing in our life. It damages human’s personality and can destroy marriage.
Another mistake in the relationship is egoism. Often spouses’ interests are not common. Husband likes intellectual programs, wife likes romantic films and they can make a situation which looks like mixed-fighting. Moreover, they can keep silence for a few days. One cannot deny that it is not a problem of one concrete family; it is a real problem of every family member.
In conclusion, I would like to say that we are people and we are not perfect. All of us want to be happy and want to have a loved person by our side. We have some pluses of our character and some minuses. However, one should not forget that we all depend on each other. When we have a conflict, we should understand the main reason and find the compromise. We should not be arrogant. We should listen to our close person and try to make the happy.
Ogonkova Ann
It is not every couple that makes a pair
All people have a dream about love. Everybody thinks that if they find it than it will make their life colorful and wonderful like a rainbow. This idea is on our minds. We want it; we find a real chance to meet this special person. One should note that finding love and saving it are different things. People’s feelings fade away. I think that is the moment when partners need to make a choice: to work on these relationships or to end them. People who have stopped loving each other but are still in relationships are making mistakes.
Firstly, people live together out of habit. It is convenient. Couples feel stability. Each partner has their own responsibilities. They have just attachment. They do not cuddle and kiss. They do not have romance and passion. It is undeniable that these relationships will never result in a marital success. They can last forever, but they will never be sincere and tender.
Secondly, they do not understand what they really want. For example, some people can live together for ten years and not think about engagement, marriage and having children. Their relationships look like a long-term prelude to marriage. What are they waiting for? If your feelings are mutual, you should build your life, you should plan, because time is not perpetual.
Finally, couples having children are making even a bigger mistake, because they hinder both their and their child’s personality. Every time when children hear their quarrels and squabbles, they see the crisis of the family, which sets a bad example for their future personal life. Moreover, the parents think they have sacrificed themselves for the sake of their children. And many years later they will tell their child that they devoted their whole life to them.
In conclusion, I would like to say, of cause, if you understand that you do not have feelings you should not hold this person, fearing that love will not find you and you will remain single. I believe it is extremely important to be sincere with yourself and with your partner.